Many people keep asking this question. But keep it in mind that true love still exist but the kind love we're having now is elastic love that do expands and changes with time as time goes on the love is getting fade until it definitely disappear into the atmosphere. love doesn't start or stop at once it happens like transformation and deformation with warning light it increases and decreases on a random motion.
I've written so many articles on relationship guides but I've not made mention of appearance and disappearance of love not until I got stucked by it.
Yes love is real and sweet to experience you will feel on top of the world when you have one. You'll be as if you're capable of doing it. At times you look at others as if they don't know how to handle relationship. When others are talking trash about love what you'll just do is to hiss at them and call them fool.
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HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU'RE INTO TRUE LOVE?
1. True Love Is Never A Magic
Like I said true love is never a magic that blossom in a day. True love is like a seed that you'll need to plant and start to nurture it, you'll provide adequate necessary nutrients to make it germinate into a fruit.
2. True Love Focus on Tomorrow
True love doesn't rely on yesterday (past) but it talks about tomorrow (future). How the two parties will be successful in life not how to consume the future.
3. True Love Ends With Money
True love doesn't start with money but it ends with money. Don't get it twisted my friend if you don't have money to spend on your partner it will be hard to maintain that love. Unless if you want to date someone in your village and not city girls that are exposed to the world of Technology.
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4. True love comes with gifts.
One of the best way to express true love is to accommodate gifts. How do you tell me you love me if you can't present me gifts?. Here is not about giving him or her the whole world but the little things that you do counts.
5. True love appreciates
No matter how small it is, it seems big to him or her. I'm not talking of enormous gifts but the little things that you do will be appreciated.
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HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU'RE OUT OF LOVE?
Like I said love is an elastic the fact that it fits you now doesn't mean it can't slack.
1. You'll feel like everything is going on fine.
You'll feel like everything is going on fine. Even without hearing his or her voice for like a week you won't feel the vacuum.
2. You find enough time for friends
You find enough time for friends than for him or her. When he or she needs your presence you'll find some kind of excuses to dodge it.
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3. You'll feel happy without him or her.
When he or she comes online, don't be happy because he or she may not chat with you cos he/she feels happy being with them.
4. Increase in demand.
If there is increase in demand of your partner you should know that you have to park well. Time up. This may be increase in money, sex, care etc. He/she will want you to put your head down and continue to walk with it just to show how much you care. He/she will not want to know if it's convenient at that time what he/she is after is to be satisfied in time of needs.
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5. Too much complaints.
When complains are too much it leads to argument. And argument leads to quarrel. And this leads to break up. I'm not saying complaints and arguments shouldn't be but don't let it lead to quarrel. Quarrel can still occur between husband and wife cos they'll know how to settle it amicably on their bed cos something has bound them together forever so they have no choice than to settle it. But when it comes to boyfriend and girlfriend nothing bind the two of you together yet so 80 percent probability is ascertain to separate.
HOW TO AVOID HEART BROKEN IN RELATIONSHIP
Relationship is a game you have to play it, the way it comes. It is normal to have break up in relationship but the jeopardy there is to avoid heart broken.
Heart Broken is suffering from intense
or exhibiting overwhelming sorrow,
grief, or disappointment.
In one of my articles I've made mention of this and I'll still repeat it again.
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1. Never invest your FUTURE in relationship.
Most people invest their future in the name of love don't forget relationship is a game and the rule of the game is win or loose. You used a lot of money that you ought to plan for your future on your partner or you give your partner your school fees hoping that all is well?. Don't be astonished when he/she laughs at you that he won while you loose. Always remember the rule win or loose.
2. Love as If You don't Love
When you love, you love as if you don't love care as if you don't care. Don't let the love overwhelm you. Live a normal life. Don't put all your mind in it always remember rule number 1.
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3. Be yourself. Don't be dependant.
You can live a normal life without being depending on someone, it's because you make them big that's why they take advantage of you and take you for granted.
4. Beware of Sweet talk
Don't indulge in being aroused by the sugar coated words like: "I'll give you the whole world", "I'll catch a grenade for you", "You're the most beautiful/handsome girl/boy I've ever seen" those words are not helpful they only enslave you. Let them put it in actions not just mere words.
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5. Not all relationships will lead to marriage.
Some are to teach you a lesson. No relationship is a waste we learn everyday in our day to days activities, only that you don't take note.
Some relationships are just for flirt. You have to know the one you're into right from the onset.
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