Singles and Divorcees Relationship Guides: 8 Signs It’s Time To End The Relationship

Relationships are important to each other, to our families, to
our friends, to the people we care about. There comes a point
in romantic relationships when things become serious and it becomes an actual Relationship,
one where the idea of spending your life with this person and
crafting your life together is a valid and understandable
continuation of this relationship. When that isn’t achieved, the question becomes,
‘why not?’ Ending a relationship is no easier with age and experience,
but sometimes we become so caught in patterns and
schedules, the comfortable grooves of our lives, something as disruptive and jarring as
ending a relationship can seem too much effort and fuss, even
when we’re not at all happy. If you’re feeling as if you’re stuck
in this place, searching for signs as to whether or not to break
up, check out the list of go-to signs we’ve compiled for when
it’s time to bite the bullet and end the relationship.
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1. You don’t trust each other
any more.
Trust is one of the most important parts of any
relationship and when you lose that, it’s almost certainly time
to end the relationship.
The signs your relationship has gone through this is simple – you find
yourself questioning the other person’s motives, abilities and
reasons all the time. Everything from why she’s acting so nice to
you, to how much you trust her to take something that is
important to you and respect it. If there’s mutual distrust on
either side, it can lead to absolute crumbling of the
relationship and the foundations it was built on,
causing jealousy, anger, possessiveness and other
negative feelings to leak free and poison the already tenuous
relationship. Hitting this point is very hard to come back from
and one of the reasons it might be right to end the relationship.
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2. You realize you have
different values.
We all have our own values that are important to us – security,
freedom, a conservative family, a liberal family, an open
marriage. Whatever your values are, that’s fine, but when they begin to rub uncomfortably
against your significant other, it might be an early warning sign
all is not right in paradise and it might be time to end the
relationship. Every relationship has a process
of compromise, negotiation and assimilation of your partner’s
values into your life, but sometimes values are too
distinct and different to ever be reconciled without a drastic
compromise that will likely cause a rift as one of you
struggles against what you really want and what you’ve
decided you must become in order to fulfill the other person’s
needs. If this is a serious problem in your relationship,
it’s best for both parties to end the relationship and move on.
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3. You no longer make plans with him or her in mind.
This one ties deeply into the idea if you’ve slowly been
pushing your significant other out of your life psychologically,
it’s time to actually remove them.
We all make plans for the future, even if they only go so far as the next few weeks or
month or so, and your significant other should always
be considered as a part of them, even if the plans don’t directly involve him or her.
No longer making plans with your partner in mind is one of the major signs it’s time to end
the relationship – if you’re not making plans with your
significant other in mind, he’s no longer a big part of what you
hold dear. If you’re subconsciously seeing him in a
transient way, i.e. as if he’s not a permanent fixture or a solid
part of your life, then you’ve already psychologically let go and are just treading water.
End the relationship so both of you can move on.
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4. You no longer have any fun.
Relationships are supposed to be fun, and joyous, and if you’ve lost that from the relationship,
it might be time to end the relationship if you find yourself
unable to retrieve and reawaken the sense of fun you no doubt once shared with your
significant other. Days have become dull, every attempt at
excitement or some happiness-
inducing activity is met with malaise or a general distaste for
something that breaks you out of your routine.
Nothing kills so much as endless, anodyne routine, and that’s the same with relationships.
A relationship should be responsible and grown up as
well as fun, so there should always be a balancing of both sides.
Being responsible and able to cut loose means you have the best of both worlds. If
you’ve grown tired of the relationship, you’ve got to realize life is way too short to
be with someone who doesn’t appreciate the same sort of fun you have, and if you’ve had this
discussion more than enough times without gaining any compromise or leeway, it might
be right to end the relationship.

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5. You fantasize about life
with someone else.
Everyone fantasizes – it’s a part
of human nature, the ability to dream and creatively envision
that which may or may not have been, or all that could have
been, in either a positive or negative way.
However, it begins to negatively affect your relationship when you cannot
channel your energies into being in a relationship with
your current significant other, instead choosing to daydream
about a life with someone else – or, more honestly,anyone else. This isn’t the same as having a
little pleasant daydream about Liam Hemsworth or Kate Upton
or Laverne Cox, and then going on in your daily life. The kind of
fantasizing we’re talking about here is the persistent, half-
serious daydreaming about someone who’s caught your eye
and whom you could seriously see yourself sharing a life with.
Maybe it’s the cute co-worker who always sits next to you and
shares snacks with you, or the barista at the coffee shop who
knows you by name and gives you a special smile. If you’re
going down this route, then perhaps you’ve already given up
on your relationship psychologically and emotionally,
and it might be time to end the relationship you’re currently in.

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6. You can’t see a future with
him or her.
The most important point of
being in a relationship is the idea of creating a future
together, shaping and designing your life you are actively
choosing to share with your significant other. If you cannot
imagine a future with this person, then it brings about the
question about why you are in the relationship to begin with
and why you’re choosing to remain in a situation with
which you have little emotional investment. That isn’t to say having casual
relationships are stupid or pointless – they can be fun and
an enjoyable experience – but if you’re in a full-on, long-term
relationship with someone, the idea of spending the rest of your
life with this person has to be a large contributing factor to the
relationship. If you’re not seeing or wanting to envision a future
with this person, then it’s time to end the relationship and
move on.
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7. You can’t get excited about
the idea of marrying this
person.
Marriage isn’t for everyone and that’s okay, but a way to assess
whether or not it might be time to end the relationship, is to
look to a possible future and imagine yourself getting married to your current partner.
Not just the idea of marriage, but the whole shindig. The
physical act of marriage. Chances are if you’re at the end
of your relationship’s path, the idea of marrying this person
and consigning yourself to potentially years of marriage
with him or her sends a cold shiver down your spine and
makes you feel absolutely terrified. Getting married is a bit of an
extreme circumstance, perhaps, but the idea of any form of
strong, serious commitment with a person can induce
feelings of panic and fear, and might be a strong indicator and
sign it’s time to end the relationship. Things have run
their course, maybe, and while it’s nice to cling to the idea of
changing and getting over it, it’s not fair to the other person who
might be more committed and ready to take that step where
you cannot just yet.

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8. You realize he or she has
become a stranger.
At times when you're not having feelings for your spouse and you feel like you're not missing him or her.
In most cases you're not free with your spouse everything turns to argument and conflict.
He or she no longer find interest in your company again you should know it's time up.
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